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Wedding Invitation Ideas from Three Designers to Help Match Your Theme to Your Invite

When newly engaged couples find themselves in need of wedding-invitation ideas, they typically begin by flipping through offerings from online print shops, independent designers, and stationers. And they quickly learn one thing: the selection is inexhaustible. After their eyes glaze over, they may begin to wonder: does it even matter what the invitations look like?

The answer from our roundtable of experts is an emphatic yes.

“The invitation will be the first impression guests have of the wedding and should give them an idea of what to expect,” said Caron Perry, the owner of Chatham & Caron Letterpress Studio. “The invitation design can embody the essence of what you're trying to achieve.”

We’ve compiled advice from Perry and her fellow designers to lay down some ground rules. As you weigh wedding-invitation ideas, be sure to consider these five things, which can help set the tone for your wedding.

Wording Your Invitation

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Left: Courtesy of Chatham & Caron. Right: Courtesy of Champagne Press.

A very traditional wedding would be hosted by the bride’s parents, so the invitation would also begin with them: “Mr. and Mrs. [bride’s father] request the honor of your presence at the marriage of their daughter.” As more couples pay for their own celebrations, though, the opening will commonly read “Together with their families, [the couple] cordially request your presence.” Or it may omit the rest of the family altogether. (No offense, Mom.)

Invitation designers counsel couples to use formal wording, at least on the invitation card, even if they’re having a less traditional wedding. That means spelling out dates—Saturday the Sixth of June, for example—and avoiding abbreviations.

“It’s the one opportunity in your life that you get to have a formal affair,” said Julie Chaet of Champagne Press. “With the dates, the year, and things like that, I think it’s nice to keep it traditional.”

If you’re definitely opposed to stuffy wording, have some fun. Try out phrases like “[couple] invite you to party with us” or “eat, drink, and be married with [couple].”

Choosing Your Fonts and Printing Method

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Left: Courtesy of Champagne Press. Right: Courtesy of Julie Hanan Designs.

“Most people can generally look at the invitation and determine how formal [the wedding’s] going to be,” said Julie Hanan, who owns Julie Hanan Designs. The font choice is one of the most immediate indicators of the level of formality, which most guests use to figure out what to wear.

Calligraphy and serif fonts exude a more traditional, classic style, while sans-serif fonts are more contemporary and sleek. If your wedding has a rustic or vintage tone, Chaet said, aged-looking typefaces can convey that in print form.

Formal invitations are usually printed using letterpress, thermography, or engraving—more labor-intensive methods that require the customer to pay per color. Digital printing offers a wider range of colors at a lower price, but among the traditional-minded it might indicate a more casual wedding. (A swanky country-club wedding, for instance, will probably have invitations engraved with a serif font in black.)

Selecting Your Paper

Some guests may be able to figure out the tone of your wedding by the weight of the invitation. Printing methods like letterpress and engraving require a thicker, cotton-based paper; digital printing uses thinner cardstock.

You might even want to consider the paper’s hue: “An ecru paper is a classic color, especially paired with black or gold ink,” Perry said. “A bright white paper is more contemporary.” (Colorful cardstock is likewise more modern.)

Chaet considers the paper properties as yet another way to convey the tone to guests. “If we’re talking about an outdoor, rustic-type wedding or a minimalistic bohemian kind of invite, I’ll try to guide them toward something that’s a little bit more organic and has more fibers in the paper. If they’re having a modern wedding, I usually will direct them toward something that’s a little smoother, has a more plastic feel.”

Including Enclosures

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Courtesy of Julie Hanan Designs

In a highly traditional invitation, the initial card asks guests to attend the marriage ceremony, usually at a place of worship. An enclosed reception card then directs them to the celebration that follows.

“I’d say we see it sort of half and half, where people are including [the reception card] or they prefer to include it on the main invitation just to save a bit of money,” Hanan said.

So a lot couples are forgoing at least one enclosure. But there’s something like seven others you can include—what about those? Unsurprisingly, invitations with multiple cards, such as directions, accommodations, and weekend activities, will be considered more formal by guests. Couples who are trying to save money or simply don’t want the bother of multiple enclosure cards might opt for a small insert directing guests to a wedding website for more information.

Formal invitations will also include an RSVP card complete with an addressed and stamped envelope (the US Postal Service and Zazzle actually offer wedding-specific stamps). According to Hanan, more casual invitations could change up the wording (“can’t wait to celebrate” vs. “accepts”), add some fun (like music requests or an ad-lib-style reply), use a postcard, or ask people to RSVP online.

Going for Graphics

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Left: Courtesy of Julie Hanan Designs. Right: Courtesy of Chatham & Caron.

If your wedding is on a beach or a ranch, it’s probably obvious that it isn’t a black-tie affair. So there’s no harm in including a themed graphic that hints at the playful tone of your nuptials.

But if you don’t want to go all out and decorate your invite with seashells, there are other ways to get your message across. And Chaet suggests that you definitely do get your message through—guests will want to know if they’re attending a wedding with an unusual theme or an outdoor location. Printing “seaside celebration” or using a nautical color scheme should tell your friends not to wear their stilettos; a carefully chosen vintage-style font could indicate a carnival or Roaring Twenties theme.

And don’t forget the rest of the packet: “If you’d like to keep the invitation card itself more traditional, you could add a patterned starfish envelope liner to a color envelope,” Perry said. “That way your guests can get a hint of your theme and color without it being overwhelming.”

Top photo illustration by Mark Mills, Groupon